Obehi Iyobhebhe
3 min readApr 1, 2022

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sad woman with a beer glass by her side

If I could talk about how 2022 has been going for me, I’d say it has been an emotional rollercoaster.

In February, I made myself jobless because I felt like I could go for more. I’ve spent the last two months looking for jobs, and honestly, it’s easier to find writing gigs than it is to find people who want to employ you.

At some point, I started feeling like people were rejecting and ghosting me because of my location. However, I got to realize that it’s beyond that.

Chances are they aren’t impressed with my resume. Or I’m not the right fit for the job. I’ve applied for jobs that I was underqualified for, and I laugh each time I try to cold pitch for them.

But so far, I’ve learned two important things since my job hunt started.

1. Stepping out of my comfort zone is scary

girl laying under white sheets

I’ve never been an advocate of stepping out of my comfort zone. Since my freelance career started in 2020, I’ve never had to apply directly to companies. I typically work under people since it’s safe, and I’m assured of a monthly salary.

Being a freelancer made it possible for me to work from the comfort of my home — most times, my bed. But, since I started pitching directly to clients, I’ve had to write professional cover letters and keep my fingers crossed fearfully. It’s a bumpy ride, but I’m learning to get comfortable outside my zone.

2. Sometimes, you may never get the job you think you are qualified for

melancholic woman, staring at her laptop screen.

I enjoy writing mental health articles because of my interest in seeing people healthy. Since the lockdown, I’ve written about mental health on my Facebook wall and Medium page.

However, I still got rejected when I applied to write for a mental health blog. I was sure that I would get that gig, but I didn’t. I was devastated for almost two days before accepting the truth.

Even if you know how to do a job excellently, you may not be considered for the position. It doesn’t make you a terrible person. Most times, some people are more qualified than you. Wouldn’t you opt for the best option if you were in the employer’s shoes?

frustrated woman in front of a laptop, with a headset in front of her and a teal green cup by her side

What’s my point?

It’s normal to face a lot of rejection. However, you should not let it affect your productivity. If you decide to stay down after a setback, it’s on you because many opportunities are available. You have to keep trying.

So, here’s me applauding you for trying even when you don’t feel like it; staying positive even in a hostile environment; and choosing to remain sane in this fast-paced world.

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Obehi Iyobhebhe

Ghostwriter— blogs, whitepapers, social media content, and sale copies.